Putting the real back into relationships.

Done with dating douches?

I’m patting the seat beside me for you.

Get comfortable as you’re about to find out how to:

Repel emotionally unavailable men who waste your time and wreck your head by taking this one action (it’s a game-changer!) Shoo Mr. Unavailable

Spot the tell-tale signs of a co-dependent relationship (and get out fast)

Hone your intuition so you can spot a narcissistic man from 10 feet away (and turn in the opposite direction and run, even if you’re wearing your 3-inch Louboutin heels)

AVOID GETTING INTO A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP – KNOW THE SIGNS!

HOW TO SPOT A CO-DEPENDENT, NARCISSISTIC OR EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MAN BEFORE YOU GET YOUR HEART HURT

So many dating profiles; so few real possibilities

Do you:

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Worry you’ll be on your own forever as you think the worthwhile men are all taken?

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Avoid family gatherings as you can’t deal with Aunt Joan asking one more time why you’re still single at your age?

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Promise yourself at the start of every year that this year your love life will take off, you’ll find The One and live happily ever after?

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Give up by the end of January on the idea of having a meaningful relationship and resume your swiping left and right on Tinder (why so many lefts?) or write up an uninspiring Match.com profile with your most flattering vacation pics from 5 years ago?

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Dread spending another Valentine’s Day on your own?

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Obsess late at night about the one who got away and check his FB status in case there’s been an update …maybe he’s broken up with HER. It’s been 12 hours since you last checked. A lot can happen in that time.

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Continue hooking up with an old college friend even though you know it’s sabotaging your chances of meeting someone who’s available for a relationship?

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Feel envious of your friend who recently got engaged as your pool of unattached friends is growing ever smaller?

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Procrastinate about getting into a relationship until you’ve reached your ‘perfect’ weight as you don’t feel ready for intimacy?

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Spiral into negative thinking that you’re unworthy of a loving partner?

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Feel resigned to one day settling for somebody to avoid being lonely?

You’ve gone on so many dates thinking this time it might work out…but something’s always missing:

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There’s not a whiff of chemistry.

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He’s recently broken up with his long-term partner and makes it clear he’s not interested in getting into another relationship anytime soon.

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He’s a player

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There’s chemistry but he’s a total bore (yawn, yawn)

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You discover he’s already in a relationship and has no intention of leaving it

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You’d three great dates and then he ghosted you, leaving you stumped. What a douche!

Dating can be really damn hard.

Relationships are supposed to bring joy into your life, not add more stress to it. But finding the man who’s right for you IS NOT EASY.

You can’t keep doing the same thing repeatedly and then wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of man – Mr. Unavailable, Mr. Narcissist or Mr. Needy.

You’ve got to change on the inside if you want to stop attracting destructive or unfulfilling relationships.

There cannot be emotional intimacy without vulnerability and openness. Without emotional intimacy a relationship will falter and die.

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”

C.G. Jung

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